I thought about the comment left and I've decided that it's exactly right. I should stop focusing on what I don't have any more, and focus on what I do have. I went to dinner on Sunday night with Shane and Kat and Matty and Neene and Steve, and it is these kind of people that don't care one way or another what I say or do. Or maybe it's that they do care, but still love me for me.
I have great friends at work, people in my uni classes always remember my name, when I can never remember theirs. Friends come and go, so I should make the best of the people I have around me now.
You know when Netty told me the other day that she wanted to talk to me, ultimatly to tell me off, she first asked me if I wanted to go have lunch with her. You know the first thought I had? Hey, she really does want to catch up. But really it was just to tell me off for being insensitive, and thats it. I keep sticking up for her and trying to see the best in her, when everyone else is telling me she isn't worth it. We really had a lot of fun in the same house. We worked well together on school work. Is it just my easy personality that meant we never clashed? Am I too reasonable?
I wonder if she will say anything when I see her thursday. There is only one more bill left from the house. Will I get the rest of the bond back?
Find out on the next, Days of Our Lives.
Don't make me use my teacher voice!
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Name: Leona
Age:26
Favourite Colour: Green
What I'm Watching: Top Gear, Dexter, How I Met Your Mother, Spicks and Specks, MXC 'Most Extreme Elimination Challenge', Lie To Me.
What I'm Reading: Twilight Series, Killashandra 'Crystal Singer' Series.
What I'm Listening To: Foo Fighters, Children Collide, Laura Marling, Eva Cassidy, All American Rejects.
Age:26
Favourite Colour: Green
What I'm Watching: Top Gear, Dexter, How I Met Your Mother, Spicks and Specks, MXC 'Most Extreme Elimination Challenge', Lie To Me.
What I'm Reading: Twilight Series, Killashandra 'Crystal Singer' Series.
What I'm Listening To: Foo Fighters, Children Collide, Laura Marling, Eva Cassidy, All American Rejects.
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2 comments:
Just remember as our life does evolve that our friends evolve. Very few friends will remain from our school days and probably very few if any from our days at uni. We develop different friends when we start to establish our careers and when we have children. Our family lasts forever and that is why we work at our relationships with our family.
BTW I don't know that Annette has a lot of friends. Does that say something?
Life transitions can be hard, and realizing that friendships change and disappear can be really hard too. It sucks when they happen at the same time... (I had lost a best friend almost a year ago, it still bugs me, but it's better without her in my life)
Glad to hear that you're choosing to look at the positive. Sounds like there's lots of people out there who love you and care for you - hopefully you feel that, and keep on remembering to always look on the bright side of life (Monty Python, anyone? *grin*)
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